I use EAC, and I have about $5,500 worth of hi-fi (just CD player, Amp, and speakers). I haven't bothered to check differences between disks, but this seems to be a matter of CDR reflectivity, if you ask me. It is common knowledge that DVD players are very fussy about the grade and manufacturer od the DVD-R disks used (try many copies on a PS2, for example, and it'll spit them out). I see no reason to presume that CD players should be completely free of similar foibles, even though they might not go quite so far as to actually reject the disks. If a CD player's laser is having mild difficulty in reading a disk, because it does not have the optimum reflectivity offered by pressed originals, then of course it's error correction is going to be working harder, and the higher frequencies are going to suffer, since these require the most detailed information.
My Plextor 40-12-40a offers a "VariREC" option, which is selectable when burning audio disks. This varies the Laser settings during burning, and can be biased one way or the other, from neutral. Apparently this has the effect, depending on the setting you choose, of subtly altering the subjective sound quality when you play back the finalised disk on an audiophile system. I will try this at some point, but, to date, I've not bothered playing with the settings, simply because I am more than happy with the copies I already get!
Personally, my best advice would be to:
Use EAC, since it has far more substantial error-checking, and error-correction than *ANY* other ripper.
Buy decent CDRs (if you care about sound quality then it follow that you should care about media quality).
Buy CDRs that are as silver, and highly-reflective, as you can find - in other words, ones which most closely resemble commercial pressed CDs.
Don't write your CDRs at 40x!!! Write them at no faster than 8x (in fact Plextor recommend not writing AUDIO CDRs any faster than 4x, believe it or not. This advice does not apply to standard, non-audio data).
Finally, if you are writing your audio to cheapo CDRs, at 40x, and you find they are decent enough quality for your ears, then carry on as you are, and good for you!
CDrZeus.