Overreacting...

cdorders

cdorders

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I'm writing this thread because I feel that some people are STILL unsatisfied with my behaviour and attitude. First of all I have to mention that anything I post has no way of blaming anyone or making me aggressive to either users or mods. I post only facts I know or have faced, neither fantasies, nor rumours. I never wanted (or want) to pretent I was an expert or something like that. The expert thing was only used under my username for some time just because this came to my mind at the time of my membership and I had never thought it would end to something like this. Anyway, I have the feeling that some of you may still be pissed of my behaviour and I really don't know why... I believe my attitude has changed a lot and my mistakes have been improved. I spent a lot of time reading and posting articles from this forum and I do everything I can to spread the forum anywhere... Perhaps I'm too young for this forum and maybe my aggressiveness is because of my age (20 years old). Anyway, if you have any disagreements with me or my attitude again, then please let me know. I'm tired of trying day by day and instead anything else, I feel like I'm disliked by some people... I wonder why? Perhaps I'm too young for this forum...
 
davlyn

davlyn

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cdorders
Why are you so upset ...dont take things to hart...life is too short to let things let you down...just say F&^K them and keep on keeping on..
All the best..
 
daveml

daveml

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@cdorders.
Your input is always welcome.
Your posts are less confrontational the they were at first.
I think that was more a problem with the way your English was translated.
Sometimes your posts appear more like "fact" than "opinion".
This forum is all about opinions and we all are allowed to have our own. (even you!!lol!!)
We all make the mistake of appearing to tell someone instead of suggesting to them.
I have made this mistake more than once.
I find it is always worth reading through your post to see if you may upset someone with it.
There are always going to be a few arguements on here as there are so many different people with very different attitudes and personalities. You just have to try to live together!
We all (me included) have to try to keep this place harmonious and a friendly place to be.
Your age is certainly not an issue as there are much younger members than you.
Dont worry, be happy!;)
 
Laz

Laz

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I've got no problems with you m8. :)

I think like daveml said, a lot of disbutes that happen here are mainly because of language. This is a very cosmopolitan forum and it must be very hard for a lot of posters whose first language is not English. Crikey, you don't want to see my postings in Greek, that's for sure!!! :D :p :D

So IMHO I always feel that when someone say's something in a post that may seem a little harsh you should let it go as the chances are it was never intended to be meant that way. ;)

JMO
 
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svgusta

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that was a very good resumé daveml.
I couldnt have said it better myself.
cdorders your opinion is worth the same as all others.
We all has this feeling of the things you feel sometimes.
Do as davlyn says.... :) ;)
 
woody

woody

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I need to add this.It needs to be said!

Problems arise when certain people do not let an issue stop.The thread goes on and on....We will disagree at times.

For example, I like Plextors,and you may like Liteons.I say why I like a certain brand,and you do the same...it should end there.Some threads just go back and forth with each other trying to "sell" their opinion.

None of us are experts,really.So it is much easier to state your opinion,and let others do the same.

Big deal if somebody doesn't agree with you..let it go.:rolleyes: The more opinions by other individuals,the better.

There is usually more than one solution to a problem.So the more people who respond to a thread,the better.:)
 
cdorders

cdorders

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OK then, I recognise mistakes that sometimes I do and I apologise for them. But I guess the "aggressiveness" or the "fact" thing may derive from my English (as Daveml said the English translation of my saying). Unfortunately I would not be proud of my English level, but I hope it is enough to communicate with others successfully. Perhaps the only thing may be the structure or words used of what I want to say and some times it looks like a fact rather than an opinion. Yes, nobody can be an expert as there are others sometimes that may have to add something more. For example, I work as a DJ successfully playing TRANCE music and I wouldn't never say or I'm an expert to Rock music or R&B as there are many others that know this type of music much much better than I do... I build Audio systems and Music PCs for studios and companies, but I would never say I'm an expert programmer or musician. And of course I would always respect the others' saying either if it is right or wrong, making my suggestion according to things I have faced or know without forcing him or rejecting his opinion... ;) Thanx to all of you for your time and replies which I found really helping and correct and I hope that nobody has hard feelings with me...
 
woody

woody

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Hmm.....very nice sig.:)

If any members don't understand what's going on,just do a search of CDorders posts.Then you will see what I mean>it is not a problem with English.It's a matter of trying to get one's opinion across.

I have tried to mediate his problem with the mods,to no avail.I'm actually sick of this...been going on for months.

Goodbye Cdorders!!
 
woody

woody

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Not much to say Snoppen.Some of the mods had problems with him since day one.

He has totally peeved off some by posting his listen to me only responses.Take a look at the earlier posts especially, as they set the tone.People have been complaining so much that I sent him a friendly PM.It was pleasant.

Most threads only require one post to get a point across.The majority are long threads trying to get people to see his way.The tension has built up so much that he decided to post about his being "abused",which was not the case,I think.

It became so bad that a mod was about to be banned.:rolleyes:
 
N.B.

N.B.

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Staff member
Hmmz, I am talking on IRC to cdorders ...
I fully agree with you woody, and I do understand :)
Hopefully we only have to ban him temporary ...
He starts being nice ... so maybe in one week or 2 we could let him access again ..
 
M

Master

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looks like the "Strafbank" at brennmeister.com

I don´t like it !

If you are temp. out of order then you are on the "Strafbank" ( icehockey) :p
 
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elpresidente

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yep ...never got into real trouble with him...but now I´ve to agree with NB...he is getting nice ;)
maybe banning (temp) shows the right effect...

üsse
 
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